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		<title>Coincidence — Or Something More?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2026 15:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>On Sunday 2 August, I copied this quote in my commonplace book because I liked it. I often connect to a quote for a particular, immediate reason, but this time I didn&#8217;t. The truth of the words spoke to me. Signs and coincidences are not just funny little weirdsies&#8230; They are not accidents. They are [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Sunday 2 August, I copied this quote in my commonplace book because I liked it. I often connect to a quote for a particular, immediate reason, but this time I didn&#8217;t. The truth of the words spoke to me.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Signs and coincidences are not just funny little weirdsies&#8230; They are not accidents. They are real. They are cosmic messages. They are made of love, and they are for you&#8230; There is a web that connects all things, all timelines, all thoughts, all possibilities, and certainly all souls&#8230; What you call a coincidence is nothing more than a moment when you actually notice the web&#8230; If you were even more tuned in. more calm, and present at all times, pretty soon you will see nothing BUT such glimpses, signs, and coincidences.<br />
— Elizabeth Gilbert, <a href="https://substack.com/home/post/p-204125256" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>8/2/26 Letter From Love newsletter on Substack</strong></a></p>
<p>Shortly after writing the quote in my book, I was bloomscrolling on Substack and saw 2 random notes from people I don&#8217;t follow that contained the same message. When 2 people who didn&#8217;t collaborate say the same thing, I know the Universe is trying to tell me something! The messages were:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">THIS DID NOT APPEAR ON YOUR TIMELINE BY MISTAKE! August is about to blow you away with massive abundance and success!<br />
— <strong><a href="https://substack.com/@elisemcdowell/note/c-305397086" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@EliseMcDowell</a></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">August will be a month of abundance.<br />
— <strong><a href="https://substack.com/@badredheadmedia/note/c-304900050" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@BadRedheadMedia (Rachel)</a></strong><br />
(The message looked like it came from a fortune cookie.)</p>
<p>ACX had notified me on the previous day that one of my audiobooks is on sale throughout August. That&#8217;s certainly one way the Universe could bring some massive abundance and success to me this month!</p>
<p>When our housekeeper came last week, she asked me about <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/08/i-met-barry-manilow.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>meeting the incomparable Barry Manilow</strong></a>. At the precise moment I showed her the pictures, the SiriusXM Escape channel started playing <em>Daybreak</em>! Even she recognized it as one of Barry&#8217;s songs!</p>
<p>That afternoon at the dentist, I liked the electric mix of music, but I was still surprised to hear ABBA&#8217;s <em>Dancing Queen</em>. I always feel that&#8217;s a hello from my Daddy!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to dismiss or completely miss little occurrences like these. However, sometimes too many related &#8220;coincidences&#8221; are stacked together that I must believe they were ordered by the Universe.</p>
<p>When writing about my experience of meeting Barry Manilow, I was reflecting on all of his concerts I&#8217;ve attended. One in particular stands out because a number of so-called coincidences taught me a valuable lesson.</p>
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<p>In June 2002, I had to travel to Phoenix for a 2-week class about installing and administering the Microsoft Exchange 2000 email server and client programs. Yes, PHOENIX. In JUNE.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t want to be away from Drew that long, and I hate to be hot. Everyone assured me, &#8220;Phoenix is not like your hot and humid Atlanta summers. It&#8217;s a DRY heat.&#8221;</p>
<p>True, but it was 10-15 degrees warmer there and felt like sticking your head in an oven!</p>
<p>You can imagine my elation when my boss told me I could stay home, and she&#8217;d ensure that I would attend a local training class. Unfortunately, the project manager, who lived and worked in Phoenix, whined to the big boss about my lack of attendance. The big boss called my boss, who called me and gave me the bad news: start planning a trip to Phoenix.</p>
<p>I was completely pissed off about the prospect of attending this class and struggling to stay awake every day in a hot office with a bunch of my colleagues from across the country whom I didn&#8217;t know well as the project leader droned on endlessly about the intricacies of EMAIL for 2 loooonnnnggg weeks.</p>
<p>Ugh! Tarring a road would be a much worse job, but this seemed pretty bad. I absolutely did NOT want to to go!</p>
<p>Daddy told me that if I had to go to Phoenix, something good would come out of it.</p>
<p>On 6/6/02, I wrote in my journal to the Universe and my guardian angels:</p>
<blockquote>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Do you have some purpose in mind that is causing me to go to Phoenix on 6/17 for 2 weeks? Is something good supposed to come out of it? Please help me to understand the purpose for that trip. I&#8217;m still aggravated that I have to go.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">While I could certainly entertain myself in my hotel room for the entire time, I hate to think that is what will happen. I won&#8217;t have a car, so I wouldn&#8217;t be able to meet anyone who could utilize me for v-o.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">I&#8217;m wondering if I could work out something on the Friday that I leave. I will miss seeing Barry by 1 night as he will be in Tucson on Sat., 6/22. I was just thinking about trying to meet some casting people on Friday and staying to see Barry on Saturday. I don&#8217;t know whether I could work any of this out.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I spent the next few days trying to scrounge a ticket to Barry&#8217;s Tucson show at the <a href="https://www.casinodelsol.com/venues/ava-amphitheater" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Anselmo Valencia Amphitheater</strong></a> (yes, outdoors&#8230;in Tucson!) and could only find a lawn seat.</p>
<p>In a surprising and delightful twist, another fan whom I didn&#8217;t know saw <a href="https://groups.google.com/g/alt.fan.barry-manilow/c/S0906WG2x5g/m/xvdP6LAtOf8J" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>my 6/10/02 post about tickets in the Barry news group</strong></a>. She emailed me the next day and told me she&#8217;d sell her <strong>3rd row ticket</strong> to me at cost! I was beyond excited! She inexplicably waited 3 days before sending me the ticket to me via FedEx. I was so relieved when it arrived the day before I flew to Phoenix!</p>
<p>My 4+-hour flight seemed like an eternity. After I climbed into the window seat of a cramped row that didn&#8217;t recline because it might block the exit row, I then had to sit with my knees pressed against the back of the seat in front of me because that passenger leaned back practically in my face. How I wanted to rest my chin on the top of her seat and spit on her face!</p>
<p>While Atlanta enjoyed a sultry 91ºF day, the weather was a scorching 109ºF upon my arrival in Phoenix.</p>
<p>Linda from the NY office, whom I had just met on the first day of class, had rented a van for the duration of the class. She asked me to go sightseeing and to dinner with her after work. I was talking about renting a car for my 2-hour drive to Tucson on Saturday when she generously volunteered to drive me there!</p>
<p>We spent that Saturday doing fun, touristy things on the way to Tucson. After dropping me at the venue, Linda amused herself by photographing the the scenery outside and enjoying the air conditioning and games inside the Casino del Sol next to the amphitheater. The casino and amphitheater, which are owned by the Pascua Yaqui Tribe, sat on land covered with dirt, rocks, and cacti.</p>
<p>As I found my seat, I discovered that the 2 people sitting directly in front of me in row 2 had 3 big guide dogs with them. One dog belonged to Bob, and Debbie owned the other two.</p>
<p>As we chatted — and melted in the stifling 107ºF air — before the show, Bob told me he had Parkinson&#8217;s disease and epilepsy. He said he lived on Social Security payments and couldn&#8217;t even afford to buy a new CD. He and Debbie had taken the casino shuttle to get to the show. However, the last shuttle was leaving at 10:15pm, and the concert wouldn&#8217;t be over until 10:30pm or so.</p>
<p>Debbie asked if I could take Bob home. I decided that a man aged 50+ with Parkinson&#8217;s and epilepsy who was attending a Barry Manilow concert with his service dog posed little risk of being a serial killer! I called Linda to ask if she was allergic to dogs or would mind an unexpected passenger and side quest for a few miles. It turned out Bob&#8217;s house was only about a 10-minute detour for us on our way back to Phoenix. He profusely expressed his gratitude for our help.</p>
<p>Think about all the improbable &#8220;coincidences&#8221; the Universe arranged so that Bob and his dog could get home safely that night:</p>
<ol>
<li>My work caused me to travel from Atlanta to Phoenix.</li>
<li>My boss was overruled about me missing the Phoenix class, making my appearance there truly a command performance.</li>
<li>I then realized I could see Barry in Tucson while I was in Arizona.</li>
<li>Another fan whom I didn&#8217;t know happened to see my message looking for tickets and sold me a fantastic 3rd row seat.</li>
<li>That person waited 3 days to send the ticket, but I received it just in time for my trip.</li>
<li>I sat directly behind Bob and his dog at the concert.</li>
<li>A co-worker who was new to me rented a van, not a car, and asked me to join her for meals after class.</li>
<li>She demonstrated incredible kindness in driving me to the show in a city 2 hours away, which is going way above and beyond, especially for someone you just met!</li>
<li>She agreed to take Bob and his big dog home in that spacious van that she happened to rent.</li>
</ol>
<p>I think things happen for a reason. Often, though, we don&#8217;t know the reason because it&#8217;s not about us.</p>
<p>This time, the reason was very clear&#8230;and unforgettable.</p>
<p><strong>That night taught me that when I&#8217;m facing some situation I don&#8217;t like, I should look for the gift and/or the way to be of service to someone else.</strong> I&#8217;m not always successful in adopting this mindset and therefore spend too much time and energy being angry about something I can&#8217;t change. When I remember to focus my attention on others, magic can happen!</p>
<p>By the way, Linda told me later that she won $35 that night at the casino. I&#8217;d say the Universe was smiling on her for all the help she gave to Bob and me!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2026 15:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Barry Manilow and I go back a long way. I can&#8217;t remember when I first heard Barry&#8217;s music. However, I know that I became obsessed about Weekend In New England shortly after he released it on 27 November 1976. I was in 10th grade, and I played oboe in my high school&#8217;s symphonic band. I [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Barry Manilow and I go back a long way.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t remember when I first heard Barry&#8217;s music. However, I know that I became obsessed about <em>Weekend In New England</em> shortly after he released it on 27 November 1976.</p>
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<p>I was in 10th grade, and I played oboe in my high school&#8217;s symphonic band. I LOVED the oboe part in that song! Even though I had never arranged any music, I decided I would write out the parts for every instrument in our band so that we could play the song. I, of course, would have those wonderful oboe solos!</p>
<p>I listened to the record over and over and over and over to hear all the instruments and write the notes I thought I heard. This process was even more complicated because I had to transpose notes for the key of the instrument. Plus, I had to include the key change in the song. I wanted my arrangement to sound full and rich like Barry&#8217;s orchestra, though we didn&#8217;t have a string section.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t remember how long it took to complete my transcriptions — possibly longer than it took for <em>Weekend In New England</em> to peak at #10 on the Billboard Top 100 on 26 February 1977.</p>
<p>Alas, my band director only let us play my masterpiece one time. I’ll never know if it was shelved because my arrangement had too many wrong notes, my fellow students had trouble reading my handwriting, and/or my teacher didn’t like Barry. I&#8217;ll always suspect it was due to that last reason.</p>
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<figure id="attachment_14683" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-14683" style="width: 352px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" class="wp-image-14683" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380.jpg?resize=352%2C465&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="352" height="465" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380-scaled.jpg?resize=227%2C300&amp;ssl=1 227w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380-scaled.jpg?resize=775%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 775w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1014&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380-scaled.jpg?resize=1163%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1163w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380-scaled.jpg?resize=1550%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1550w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6380-scaled.jpg?w=1938&amp;ssl=1 1938w" sizes="(max-width: 352px) 100vw, 352px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-14683" class="wp-caption-text">Cover of piano sheet music</figcaption></figure>
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<figure id="attachment_14684" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-14684" style="width: 763px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" class="wp-image-14684" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?resize=763%2C462&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="763" height="462" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C182&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C620&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C465&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C930&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6379-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1240&amp;ssl=1 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 763px) 100vw, 763px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-14684" class="wp-caption-text">My handwritten arrangements for all of the band instruments. Note that I started by writing the oboe notes in <span style="color: #ff0000;">RED</span> on the piano sheet music to the left.</figcaption></figure>
<p>When I went to college, I stopped playing or even listening to music. I worked at the IRS while going to school, so I didn&#8217;t have much time for anything else.</p>
<p>After graduating with my BA in Journalism, magna cum laude, desktop computers were in their infancy. I landed a highly-coveted position as a computer programmer. The hiring manager knew I didn&#8217;t have the technical skills at the moment, but I demonstrated in the interview that I had the aptitude for the work and am a fast learner. More importantly, I had the communications skills that were desperately needed for teaching the staff how to use their new computer hardware and software.</p>
<p>I discovered programming was a great match for my logical and analytical nature. I wanted to learn things and go deeper in my new career, so I went to grad school at night to earn my MS in Computer Information Systems.</p>
<p>Two life-changing events happened in 1992:</p>
<ol>
<li>I finished grad school.</li>
<li>I saw Barry Manilow on an Oprah Winfrey show.</li>
</ol>
<p>In watching that interview, I remembered how much I liked him in the 1970s. I bought a Greatest Hits CD. I thought that would be enough. It wasn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>The more I listened to Barry, the more I wanted to hear. I bought some of his albums. I didn&#8217;t know if he still performed in concert. I just knew that if he ever came to Atlanta, I was determined to see him.</p>
<p>Oh, yes, he was still doing concerts! He was in the midst of his &#8220;Greatest Hits and More&#8221; tour when I saw him for the first time on 30 July 1993 at Lakewood Amphitheater here in Atlanta.</p>
<figure id="attachment_14685" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-14685" style="width: 812px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-14685" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=812%2C804&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="812" height="804" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C297&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C1014&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C760&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C1521&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C2028&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=75%2C75&amp;ssl=1 75w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6376-scaled.jpg?resize=120%2C120&amp;ssl=1 120w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 812px) 100vw, 812px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-14685" class="wp-caption-text">The <em>Atlanta Journal-Constitution</em> blurb about the show that night, a picture of Barry during the concert, and my $35 ticket for row J seat 8 at Lakewood Amphitheater. I don&#8217;t remember who gave me the picture. I&#8217;ve saved almost all of my Manilow concert ticket stubs (some are framed) in this big, red notebook.</figcaption></figure>
<p>I wrote in my journal:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">I was very pleased with our seats. We were very close to the right end of the stage.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">His curtain was multi-colored, with MANILOW embedded in it so that you could only see it when the light shone upon it. I was so excited at my first glimpse of Barry! I could see him through the curtain.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">He began singing <em>Ready to Take a Chance Again</em>; I thought my heart would burst from joy!</p>
<p>I wrote more, much more. Many songs were old favorites. I wrote about <em>Weekend in New England</em> that I didn&#8217;t think it was humanly possible to sustain a note as long as he did on the ending <strong><span style="color: #800080;">When can I hold youuuuuuu?</span></strong></p>
<p>Some songs were new to me, including <em>Brooklyn Blues,</em> <em>If Tomorrow Never Comes,</em> and <em>I Made It Through The Rain</em>.</p>
<p>I did something the next day that I&#8217;d not done in my teenage years for my then-idols <strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2023/01/embracing-life-and-work.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">David Cassidy</a></strong> and John Denver: I joined a star&#8217;s fan club — the Barry Manilow International Fan Club (BMIFC)! I&#8217;ve been a card-carrying member ever since!</p>
<p>The word &#8220;fan&#8221; is shorthand for &#8220;fanatic,&#8221; and that&#8217;s what I became after that first concert!</p>
<p>Since Barry wouldn&#8217;t come back to Atlanta any time soon, I decided to go to where he was.</p>
<p>My second show was 4/26/94 in Knoxville, TN, a 3-hour drive away. I was thrilled to have front row seats! Prior to the concert, a fan behind me offered to buy my ticket for $50. I said, &#8220;Absolutely not! This is a thrill of a lifetime!&#8221; My end-of-show handshake with Barry put me over the moon!</p>
<p>At the end of 1994, Drew and I went to Las Vegas for the first time. I was lured there by Barry&#8217;s wonderful New Year&#8217;s Eve concert at the old Aladdin hotel. (I&#8217;ve now seen a total of 14 Manilow concerts in Las Vegas! I&#8217;ve made several trips there and attended his show on subsequent nights. Once, he held my hand in 2005 while singing <em>Copacabana</em>; trust me, a hand hold is sooo much better than a shake!)</p>
<p>By the mid-1990s, I had met and made friends with other fans on-line by using my Compuserve account to access the old Usenet groups. (Anyone remember those?) I started traveling to more Barry concerts in other cities. I&#8217;ve now seen him 57 times in 21 different cities! Don&#8217;t worry — I won&#8217;t tell you about all of them. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>Until I started attending so many concerts, I never realized how vitally important music is to my soul. Barry was the conduit to get me back into listening to and enjoying music, and, as a result of that step, actually playing music again after being away from it for over a decade. Rather than simply returning to <a href="https://karencommins.com/2022/09/my-life-as-a-musician.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>piano, oboe, or flute</strong></a>, I started playing the <a href="https://karencommins.com/videos#harp" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>harp</strong></a>.</p>
<p>I admire Barry for his tremendous philanthropy in addition to his musical genius. After he saw budgets for school music programs continued to be cut, Barry established the <a href="https://www.manilowmusicproject.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Manilow Music Project</strong></a>. This organization helps schools obtain and repair instruments and awards college scholarships to students and grants to teachers. He honors a local music teacher at his concerts.</p>
<p>Atlanta hosted the 1996 summer Olympics. To raise funds, the Atlanta Olympic Committee sold engravable, commemorative bricks to be laid in Centennial Park. Drew&#8217;s parents bought a brick with both our names on it. I bought 2 bricks of my own:</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14749 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Karen-and-Barry-bricks.png?resize=298%2C300&#038;ssl=1" alt="top brick says Karen Commins Can't Smile bottom brick says Without You, Barry Manilow" width="298" height="300" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Karen-and-Barry-bricks.png?resize=298%2C300&amp;ssl=1 298w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Karen-and-Barry-bricks.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Karen-and-Barry-bricks.png?resize=75%2C75&amp;ssl=1 75w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Karen-and-Barry-bricks.png?resize=120%2C120&amp;ssl=1 120w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Karen-and-Barry-bricks.png?w=526&amp;ssl=1 526w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 298px) 100vw, 298px" /></p>
<p>Through the 1990s and 2000s, I collected Barry&#8217;s recordings, sheet music and songbooks, programs, pictures, pins, apparel (shirts, hats, and jackets), bobblehead, videos (VHS, laser disc, and DVD), music boxes — if it had Barry&#8217;s name on it, I wanted it! I bought from the BMIFC, other fans, eBay (I was an early adopter in 1997), and even record collectors and stores around the world who responded to ads I ran in <em>DISCoveries</em> magazine. I definitely acquired some rare recordings that way, like colored vinyl from other countries!</p>
<p>I also found rarities by checking out record stores wherever I traveled. When Drew and I went to England and Scotland in 1997, we spent more time thumbing through dusty bins of records than visiting museums!</p>
<p>In 1999, I sold a big chunk of my Barry memorabilia in order to buy <a href="https://karencommins.com/2008/08/harp_and_voice-over_resonate.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>my first pedal harp</strong></a>. However, I still use my Barry Manilow <em>I Made It Through The Rain</em> umbrella, and posters and a cardboard cut-out of Barry adorn my craft room. The Hamburg poster on the right has <a href="https://karencommins.com/2024/06/living-with-no-regrets.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>its own story</strong></a>.</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14682" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6382.jpg?resize=865%2C649&#038;ssl=1" alt="5 framed Barry Manilow posters, 1 framed set of tickets, and a Barry Manilow cardboard cut-out decorate my craft room." width="865" height="649" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6382-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6382-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6382-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6382-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6382-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 2048w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 865px) 100vw, 865px" /></p>
<p>I also won&#8217;t part with the RIAA gold record for <em>Barry Manilow II</em>, Barry&#8217;s second album which includes his first big hit <em>Mandy</em>. Can you believe that song hit #1 over 50 years ago? The gold record belonged to Dick Fox, who was Barry&#8217;s agent at the time.</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14681" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6384.jpg?resize=431%2C576&#038;ssl=1" alt="RIAA gold record issued to Dick Fox for Barry Manilow II 33rpm LP" width="431" height="576" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6384-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6384-scaled.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6384-scaled.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6384-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/IMG_6384-scaled.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 431px) 100vw, 431px" /></p>
<p>While Barry was in town on 12 July 2000 to promote his delightfully fun 2-act musical comedy <em>Copacabana, </em>he did an interview on the 99X FM morning show. I was listening to it that day while I was at work at the IRS. They invited fans to call in, and I was thrilled to actually <a href="http://www.karencommins.com/othermedia/Barry99XIntvQuestionFromKarenCommins.mp3" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>talk to Barry</strong></a>! His advice to &#8220;<a href="https://karencommins.com/2010/05/3cs_make_that_4cs_of_branding.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>create your own stuff</strong></a>&#8221; applies to all of us in creative fields.</p>
<p>If you listened to my exchange with Barry, you might be wondering what he wrote about following your dreams in his 1987 autobiography <a href="https://www.ebay.com/sch/267/i.html?_nkw=barry+manilow+sweet+life&amp;_from=R40" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Sweet Life: Adventures on The Way to Paradise</strong></a>. Here it is:</p>
<blockquote><p>I believe that we are who we choose to be.<br />
Nobody is going to come and save you. You&#8217;ve got to save yourself.<br />
Nobody is going to give you anything. You&#8217;ve got to go out and fight for it.<br />
Nobody knows what you want except you,<br />
and nobody will be as sorry as you if you don&#8217;t get it.<br />
So don&#8217;t give up your dreams.</p></blockquote>
<p>One of my dearest dreams has been to meet Barry and have a private, meaningful conversation with him. On Saturday 1 August 2026, after seeing Barry in concert for the 57th time across 33 years, that dream came true in Nashville!</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-14687 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/GQ1A2560.jpg?resize=831%2C555&#038;ssl=1" alt="Barry Manilow and me in Nashville 8/1/26" width="831" height="555" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/GQ1A2560-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/GQ1A2560-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/GQ1A2560-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/GQ1A2560-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/GQ1A2560-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1365&amp;ssl=1 2048w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 831px) 100vw, 831px" /></p>
<p>It was especially meaningful to meet him now because Barry had lung cancer surgery at the end of 2025. No one knew whether he&#8217;d want or be able to go on stage again. His concert was FANTASTIC!</p>
<p>He was so warm and kind. I called to Drew to join us, but Barry told me that we&#8217;d first take a picture of just us, and then we&#8217;d take one with Drew.</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14727" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Barry-and-us.jpg?resize=831%2C554&#038;ssl=1" alt="Barry Manilow, Drew, and me in Nashville 8/1/26" width="831" height="554" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Barry-and-us-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Barry-and-us-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Barry-and-us-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Barry-and-us-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Barry-and-us-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1365&amp;ssl=1 2048w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 831px) 100vw, 831px" /></p>
<p>Meeting Barry was an incomparable thrill and a memory I will always cherish!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to seeing Barry&#8217;s concert again in Atlanta this week!</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t have time to tell him that we fans want him to update his memoir, and I want him to record the book as an audiobook. Barry, when you&#8217;re ready for that task, I would love to narrate the introduction for you!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3><span style="color: #3a6fb5;"><strong>Other resources on this topic:</strong></span></h3>
<p>Articles:</p>
<ul>
<li>6/17/06 <strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2006/06/hollywood_star_search.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Hollywood Star Search</a></strong></li>
<li>5/27/10 <strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2010/05/3_cs_of_branding_illustrated_b.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">3 Cs of Branding Illustrated by Barry Manilow</a></strong></li>
<li>5/28/10 <strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2010/05/3cs_make_that_4cs_of_branding.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">3Cs? Make the *4Cs* of Branding Illustrated by Barry Manilow</a></strong></li>
<li>6/5/24 <strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2024/06/living-with-no-regrets.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Living With No Regrets</a></strong></li>
<li>4/29/26 <strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/04/stop-the-comparisons.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Stop The Comparisons</a></strong></li>
</ul>
<p>Harp videos of Barry&#8217;s songs:</p>
<ul>
<li>8/21/22 <strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/ChiWVrYlvbV/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Even Now first 2 pages</a></strong></li>
<li>1/22/23 <strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CnuthXgPlHb/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Copacabana 1st stanza</a></strong></li>
<li>8/13/23 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cv5BxbOsYlP/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Even Now full song</strong></a></li>
<li>11/19/23 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cz1880LsWit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>This One&#8217;s For You</strong></a></li>
<li>5/5/24 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/C6m-j_Vs3_M/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>The Old Songs 1st verse and chorus</strong></a></li>
<li>5/26/24 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/C7dCOy0MmYx/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Can&#8217;t Smile Without You</strong></a></li>
<li>9/1524 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/C_9Nkv2MsVi/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Ready to Take a Chance Again</strong></a></li>
<li>1/26/25 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DFTdcgpyoJs/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Mandy</strong></a></li>
<li>8/10/25 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DNMc2BkMT2h/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Somewhere in the Night</strong></a></li>
</ul>
<p>The post <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/08/i-met-barry-manilow.html">I Met Barry Manilow!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://karencommins.com">Karen Commins</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>After suffering from comparison-itis for years, I resolved I would STOP THE COMPARISONS and, like Barry Manilow, run my own race! Here are 5 quotes and 3 tactics that reinforce that intention.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Twenty years ago today, I was <a href="https://karencommins.com/2009/03/my_life_as_a_secret_agent.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>a computer specialist at the IRS</strong></a>. During a break or lunch, I looked at the <a href="https://groups.google.com/g/alt.fan.barry-manilow" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Barry Manilow message boards</strong></a> on my personal laptop to see what was new. Someone posted an interview with Barry published that day in the Sydney <em>Morning Herald</em>.</p>
<p>One meaningful quote leaped off the screen at me! I immediately reached for the nearest piece of paper, which happened to be a notepad from work, and copied it:</p>
<blockquote>
<div draggable="false" data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-en-clipboard="true">I have never done anything for the money or the charts. I do what I want to do because I believe in it, and it&#8217;s always been that way for me.</div>
<div draggable="false" data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-en-clipboard="true">I didn&#8217;t even listen to the radio back when I first recorded Mandy, so I never really knew what was going on, and I still don&#8217;t.</div>
<div draggable="false" data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-en-clipboard="true"><span style="color: #800080;">When you start trying to compete with what everyone else is doing, you&#8217;re lost. </span>(my emphasis)</div>
</blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14522 size-large" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1.jpg?resize=630%2C1024&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="630" height="1024" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1-scaled.jpg?resize=630%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 630w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1-scaled.jpg?resize=185%2C300&amp;ssl=1 185w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1248&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1-scaled.jpg?resize=945%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 945w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1-scaled.jpg?resize=1260%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1260w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Barry-Manilow-quote-about-comparison-1-scaled.jpg?w=1575&amp;ssl=1 1575w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 630px) 100vw, 630px" /></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>After suffering from comparison-itis for years, I wrote in my journal one day:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Maybe this is my purpose!<br />
Maybe my biggest challenge is the thing<br />
I was sent here to learn and teach.</p>
<p>While I can’t say I am completely cured from comparison-itis, I do have some techniques to keep it at bay.</p>
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<h3><span style="color: #3366ff;">Background</span></h3>
<p>Sometimes our professional comparisons are healthy and motivate us to create goals and improve our performances, processes, and tools.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, many of the questions we might ask other narrators just set us up for unfavorable comparisons that aren’t useful.</p>
<p>Many of these comparison points, like the number of audiobooks someone has narrated or publishers they have worked for, are just arbitrary statistics. They shouldn’t be a measure of self-worth or success, but it’s easy to internalize them that way.</p>
<p>You can feel like you’re “not normal” if you can’t consistently record 2 finished hours per day, or you could feel “less than” if you aren’t booked months in advance.</p>
<p>Like your fingerprint, your narration career is unique to you. We all have different capacities for the amount of work we can and want to do based on our availability, interests, income requirements, lifestyle, etc.</p>
<p>The worst flare-ups of comparison-itis hit me when I looked at social media, which I still do more frequently than I’d like to admit. I could be having a fine day and feeling good about myself and my place in Audiobook World. Then, I opened Facebook, and would see…</p>
<p>“I just signed a 10-book series with my dream author!”</p>
<p>I have literally felt punched in the stomach or the sensation of my heart dropping when I unexpectedly saw such an announcement, especially when the books in question would be right up my alley, but I was never considered for them.</p>
<p>“Three new-to-me publishers sent me books this week! Persistence pays off!”</p>
<p>I would see statements like that and think, “I’ve been persistent for years. Why not me? When will it be my turn?”</p>
<p>A pitfall of online narrator groups and social media in general is that these sites invite the Comparison-itis Monster to take up residence in your mind and run rampant in your thoughts. As you know, people primarily show their highlight reels on social media. We don’t see the areas of their lives that aren’t so rosy or the behind-the-scenes struggles that came before the big accomplishment.</p>
<p>It took me a long time – too long! — to realize that, whether I see someone sharing a humble brag or simply some good news, <span style="color: #800080;"><strong>my feelings about these kinds of comments from other narrators had nothing to do with them and everything to do with ME</strong></span>.</p>
<p>I resolved I would <a href="https://karencommins.com/2012/03/the_2_biggest_obstacles_that_h.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>STOP THE COMPARISONS</strong></a> and, like Barry Manilow, run my own race!</p>
<h4><span style="color: #3366ff;">Quotes</span></h4>
<p>These 5 quotes about the negative affects of comparisons reinforce my intention to focus on my work, goals, relationships, and life.</p>
<p>Comparison is a cancer of the soul.<br />
— Unknown</p>
<p>To compare is to despair.<br />
To compete is to deplete.<br />
— As I discussed in <a href="https://karencommins.com/2011/10/to_compare_is_to_despairi.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>this article about competition</strong></a>, I saw the first line and added the second one.</p>
<p>We should never watch to see what another is doing or how he is doing it, for when we do this, we are limiting our own possibilities to the range of another&#8217;s vision.<br />
— Ernest Holmes</p>
<p>We won’t be distracted by comparison if we are captivated by purpose.<br />
— Bob Goff</p>
<p>I will write what I want to write, without any worry as to comparisons with &#8220;Gone With the Wind.&#8221; A writer is only responsible to himself, not to the critics or the world.<br />
— Margaret Mitchell</p>
<h4><span style="color: #3366ff;">Tactics</span></h4>
<p>Everything I wrote in <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/01/change-starts-with-your-thoughts-and-words.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Change Starts With Your Thoughts and Words</strong></a> — especially the <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/01/change-starts-with-your-thoughts-and-words.html#6Actions" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>6 Actions I’ve Taken to Develop and Maintain a Positive Mindset</strong></a> — apply here. I offer 3 additional steps to help stop the comparisons.</p>
<p><strong>1. Define for yourself what SUCCESS looks like and means to you.</strong></p>
<p><strong>2. Start a <a href="https://karencommins.com/2019/08/how-i-use-my-journal.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">regular journaling practice</a> to share your thoughts with yourself.</strong><br />
<a href="https://karencommins.com/2023/12/things-ive-learned-about-adding-new-entries-to-my-journals.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>My journals</strong></a> help me see where I’ve been and where I want to go. I can write my thoughts about situations and people, make plans, and choose better thoughts.</p>
<p>If daily journaling seems daunting, you could simply write a gratitude journal every day. Some people like to do it as the last activity before bed or first thing in the morning to start your day right.</p>
<p>I’ve even seen journals that prompt you to write just 1 line a day. It’s a great way to dip your toe in the water and begin a journaling practice.</p>
<p><strong>3. Have at least one hobby that gives you a creative outlet and sense of satisfaction.</strong></p>
<p>Hobbies keep your mind from dwelling on other people or situations and open your life up for a richer experience. Not only will your mental health improve, but possibly even your physical health.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Instead of thinking about what other people are doing, I think about what I can do to continue moving forward.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 02:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>On the wonderful Audiobooks at Sea cruise yesterday, narrator Jess Moran gave a detailed and inspiring presentation demonstrating how she intentionally and thoughtfully develops things to share on social media without making life&#8217;s work out of each post. Someone asked how to store and catalog all the assets that you create. Our fabulous host Joel [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the wonderful <a href="https://www.audiobooksatsea.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Audiobooks at Sea cruise</strong></a> yesterday, <a href="https://jessmoranvo.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>narrator Jess Moran</strong></a> gave a detailed and inspiring presentation demonstrating how she intentionally and thoughtfully develops things to share on social media without making life&#8217;s work out of each post.</p>
<p>Someone asked how to store and catalog all the assets that you create. Our fabulous host <a href="https://www.joelfroomkinaudio.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Joel Froomkin</strong></a> suggested that Evernote would be a good tool for this purpose.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s right!</p>
<p>As I&#8217;ve <a href="https://karencommins.com/2016/01/putting-the-i-in-organized.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>previously written</strong></a>, I love Evernote because it synchs across my devices and is always accessible to me. It offers tremendous flexibility in how you store info and <a href="https://help.evernote.com/hc/en-us/articles/360040282613-Search-overview" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>search for it</strong></a>. You can use tags, the title, key words, and dates in your search.</p>
<p>You can add videos, photos, and audio to a note. Evernote also will <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/02/digitizing-my-journals-with-evernote.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>transcribe your media</strong></a>, including your handwriting!</p>
<p>A Google search revealed plenty of apps for the specific purpose of holding your social media components. Airtable would also work well for this task, but I don&#8217;t know whether or how well you can use your phone with it for uploads.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t want to buy another app or test Airtable. I use Evernote for everything and wanted to try it for this purpose.</p>
<p>As an experiment today, I used my iPhone to:</p>
<ul>
<li>capture some images and videos during my day in Grand Cayman</li>
<li>create a folder in Evernote named <em>Social Media Assets</em></li>
<li>add a single note in the folder for each picture or video. You could add multiple media to a single note, but I want each thing to be a separate unit for searchability.</li>
<li>edit some video clips together in iOS iMovie</li>
</ul>
<p>The ship&#8217;s Wi-Fi is horrendously slow. I also found that it often timed out or logged me out on my phone, especially when I was uploading the videos. I had much steadier reception using my laptop.</p>
<p>Since it was so problematic, I uploaded the images from my phone to an iCloud folder. I then signed onto the Wi-Fi with my laptop and imported the media into my Evernote notes.</p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t have any issues in uploading videos and pictures straight from my phone into Evernote using regular cellular service or land-based Wi-Fi.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the 2:26 explainer video I made in iMovie. It doesn&#8217;t highlight screen taps as I normally would show in a video I produced at home. However, I think you can get the gist and see how quick and easy it is to use Evernote to catalog your clips and photos.</p>
<p><iframe loading="lazy" title="Storing Social Media Assets in Evernote" width="422" height="750" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/PZdyfqJmRB0?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>When you&#8217;d want to use the asset you&#8217;ve stored in Evernote, you could Open it and Share it to another app, or download it. I&#8217;d rather Open and Share it from within Evernote so I don&#8217;t have multiple copies of the thing.</p>
<p>A better option might be to store the resource you&#8217;ve made somewhere in the cloud like Google Drive and add its Share link to Evernote in addition to or instead of the asset. You then could use Evernote for inventory and search and always have a link to the component.</p>
<p><a href="https://share.evernote.com/note/4b5cade7-4068-7a25-beec-8417821386b0" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>This Evernote note</strong></a> has the intro clip that we filmed after breakfast that I used in the video demo. I corrected the date and transcribed the video. The video doesn&#8217;t load for me on ship, but it should be available and will probably download if you&#8217;re on land.</p>
<p>I recorded this tip for cruisers:</p>
<p><iframe loading="lazy" title="Tip for cruisers who like boiled eggs" width="422" height="750" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/biKJ1kvr18E?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>If you want to see the notebook containing all the clips I created today, <a href="mailto:Karen@KarenCommins.com?subject=Please share your Evernote Social Media Assets notebook with me"><strong>please send me an email</strong></a>. Note that I will process the requests after I get home.</p>
<p>Want to learn more about Evernote? I created a 10-module video course for members of <a href="http://www.NarratorsRoadmap.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>NarratorsRoadmap.com</strong></a>. I show Evernote&#8217;s basic features and how I use it for my Customer Relationship Management (CRM) records.</p>
<p>I also want to mention that when I write anything substantive on a social media platform — whether my own post or comments on someone else&#8217;s — I copy it from the platform into Evernote so I might repurpose it later. My words belong to ME!</p>
<p>I found in today&#8217;s experiment that I took far more pictures and videos than I usually would in a month! Plus, I learned how to do some things; for instance, I&#8217;d never used iMovie on my phone. I also learned the importance of uploading videos to YouTube rather than my WordPress site!</p>
<p>The biggest benefit to the experiment was that I felt more creative throughout the day as I was specifically looking for interesting things that I might want to include in my private journals, articles, and social media posts.</p>
<p>Thanks so much to Jess Moran for explaining your system and giving me a new approach to documenting my life!</p>
<p>PS. We had a great time shopping in Grand Cayman! I saw this sign as we walked around and couldn&#8217;t resist sharing it here!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2026 17:01:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Ideas love speed&#8230;or do they? It was 5 years ago today — 18 March 2021 — that I first heard about the situation that inspired my forthcoming book. By the end of that year, I hadn&#8217;t done much on the project even though I kept thinking about it. I&#8217;d found 2 books and originally planned [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://karencommins.com/2014/01/2-tips-to-tame-your-to-do-list.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Ideas love speed</strong></a>&#8230;or do they?</p>
<p>It was 5 years ago today — 18 March 2021 — that I first heard about the situation that inspired <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/01/im-writing-a-book.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>my forthcoming book</strong></a>.</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class=" wp-image-14459 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/March-2021-calendar.png?resize=484%2C322&#038;ssl=1" alt="March 2021 calendar with Thursday the 18th circled in purple" width="484" height="322" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/March-2021-calendar.png?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/March-2021-calendar.png?resize=768%2C511&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/March-2021-calendar.png?w=923&amp;ssl=1 923w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 484px) 100vw, 484px" /></p>
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<p>By the end of that year, I hadn&#8217;t done much on the project even though I kept thinking about it. I&#8217;d found 2 books and originally planned to mash them up in a new book like I did with Nellie Bly&#8217;s and Elizabeth Bisland&#8217;s books about their competing and very exciting solo trips around the world in 1889, creating <a href="https://amzn.to/3Gk5TBT" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Bly vs. Bisland: Beating Phileas Fogg in a Race Around The World</strong></a>.</p>
<p>However, 6 months later, I wrote in my journal on 22 June 2022: <strong><span style="color: #800080;"><em>It&#8217;s been on my to-do list with no movement forward.</em></span></strong></p>
<p>Fast-forward another 1.5 years to 5 December 2023. By this time, I had discovered a third book on my subject, which made my idea to combine texts more complicated. While this project was never far from mind, I still hadn&#8217;t taken much ACTION on it.</p>
<p>And then, I attended Jennifer Jill Araya&#8217;s workshop <strong>Dream Big: Year-End Goal-Setting for Creative Entrepreneurs.</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-14449 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Workshop-Title-Screen.png?resize=481%2C271&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="481" height="271" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Workshop-Title-Screen.png?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Workshop-Title-Screen.png?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Workshop-Title-Screen.png?w=901&amp;ssl=1 901w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 481px) 100vw, 481px" /></p>
<p><strong><a href="https://karencommins.com/2020/01/plan-your-work-and-work-your-plan.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I&#8217;m a planner</a></strong> by nature. I know and have written about <a href="https://karencommins.com/2006/08/a_short_lesson_in_goal-setting.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>goal-setting</strong></a>. I understand and have also written about the <a href="https://karencommins.com/2013/02/tdimh-write-down-your-goals.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>importance of writing your goals</strong></a>. I definitely <a href="https://karencommins.com/2021/05/how-i-get-stuff-done.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>get stuff done</strong></a>!</p>
<p>Yet I hadn&#8217;t taken the first steps of figuring out and writing a goal for this project until that afternoon with Jennifer. Writing a thought or a wish turns it into a <strong>goal.</strong></p>
<p>Jennifer walked us through the framework for setting SMART goals.</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-14444 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Smart-Goals.png?resize=469%2C261&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="469" height="261" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Smart-Goals.png?resize=300%2C167&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Smart-Goals.png?resize=768%2C426&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/JJA-Smart-Goals.png?w=926&amp;ssl=1 926w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 469px) 100vw, 469px" /></p>
<p>As shown on Jennifer&#8217;s slide, SMART goals are:</p>
<ul>
<li>S — Specific</li>
<li>M — Measurable &amp; Meaningful</li>
<li>A — Attainable &amp; Assignable</li>
<li>R — Relevant</li>
<li>T — Time-Bound</li>
</ul>
<p>I wrote my goal for the first time that day. I excitedly shared it in the Zoom chat:</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14445" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/My-Chat-in-JJA-Workshop.png?resize=373%2C402&#038;ssl=1" alt="Zoom chat KC: Finally combine 3 public domain books into 1 story and record the audiobook. It's been on my list for too long. Jennifer Jill Araya: Karen, 2024 is THE YEAR! Get it done! :) KC: YES! I was just lookin at dates that are meaningful in the story to determine a publication date!" width="373" height="402" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/My-Chat-in-JJA-Workshop.png?resize=279%2C300&amp;ssl=1 279w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/My-Chat-in-JJA-Workshop.png?w=666&amp;ssl=1 666w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 373px) 100vw, 373px" /></p>
<p>In my Evernote notes for the workshop, I wrote &#8220;first quarter 2024&#8221; as my timeline for completion. I had no idea that I would feel called to do original research and how that would change the scope and deadline MANY times!</p>
<p>I wrote in my journal on 2/24/24:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><em>It took me almost 3 years from the idea to get fully immersed in this story. Maybe the Universe had to align things</em></strong></span> for me to meet someone who gave me invaluable advice about structuring my story.</p>
<p>The project scope and my self-imposed deadline have changed several times, but my commitment to the work has only grown stronger. I craft my book every day!</p>
<p>Drew told me something that has become my guiding principle:</p>
<blockquote><p>Write the book that YOU want to write.<br />
Don&#8217;t worry about any deadline that you have set.</p></blockquote>
<p>Longtime readers (and those who clicked some of the previous links!) know that one of my favorite books is <strong><a href="https://amzn.to/4sNM4Kd" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Write It Down, Make It Happen: Knowing What You Want and Getting It</a>.  </strong>Author Henriette Anne Klauser offers a number of creative ways to write down things, from filling in blanks in theme books to writing letters.</p>
<p>She assures us that any kind of paper or writing instrument will do. Her only rule is to <strong>date</strong> whatever you write down.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m not sure whether typing your thoughts on your computer screen has the same effect as putting your hand to paper. While we write using our keyboards and screens all the time, we have a greater personal connection when we physically write something on paper.</p>
<p>I actually had explored writing this kind of book about 30 years ago, but I ruled it out for a number of reasons. I didn’t realize that my old dream was now being fulfilled for me until recently when I <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/02/digitizing-my-journals-with-evernote.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>transcribed my journal from 30 August 2000</strong></a>. This example further convinces me some ideas take time.</p>
<p>Acquiring <a href="https://karencommins.com/videos#harp" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>my dream harp</strong></a> was the same way. I wrote at least 20 years ago — maybe longer — that I&#8217;d love to have a Lyon and Healy Style 11 because it has irises on the column and soundboard. I didn&#8217;t see it as a true possibility for me, though, and I even forgot I wrote it down. I certainly hadn&#8217;t had this model at the forefront of my mind when the opportunity suddenly arose in 2023 for me to buy this harp!</p>
<p>I encourage you to listen to those little glimmers of ideas, write them down, and see how great your life becomes as a result. The Universe will conspire on your behalf in its own good time and way to help you make them happen!</p>
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<p>Screen shots from Jennifer Jill Araya&#8217;s slides used with her kind permission</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 20:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I document my book progress each day in my journals. I've been digitizing those entries and will re-purpose them into a blog when I launch the book's web site. Transcribing parts of journals led me to finally embarking on my long-held dream of digitizing my journals! I outlined my process in this article.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Updated 4/4/26</p>
<p>Inspired by <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/03/02/john-steinbeck-working-days/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>this article about how John Steinbeck used his diary while writing <em>The Grapes of Wrath</em></strong></a>, I&#8217;ve been documenting my progress in researching and writing <a href="https://karencommins.com/2026/01/im-writing-a-book.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>my non-fiction book</strong></a> in my daily journals. My journals are much more interesting as a result!</p>
<p>I then photograph my journal entries related to my book and use <strong>Evernote</strong> to transcribe them. Longtime readers know I&#8217;m an Evernote evangelist and use it for everything. I love it even more since Evernote actually transcribes my handwriting!</p>
<p>Authors who write in longhand could use this technique to quickly generate editable text rather than having someone laboriously type it.</p>
<p>I store these transcriptions in the Evernote notebook I created to house my book&#8217;s 1900+ (and counting!) research notes.</p>
<p>I tag the journal entries to be able to easily find them later. Once I launch the web site for the book, I&#8217;ll re-purpose all my journal entries into a new blog devoted to the book! The blog will certainly improve my SEO ranking for my book&#8217;s topic.</p>
<p>Since I was already doing that, I thought, &#8220;Why not transcribe the <span style="color: #993366;"><strong>entire</strong></span> journal entry?&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<figure id="attachment_14376" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-14376" style="width: 452px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class=" wp-image-14376" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/IMG_5084.jpeg?resize=452%2C603&#038;ssl=1" alt="4-shelf bookcase with most shelves full of journals, with some small pictures and personal items sharing the space. Some Statue of Liberty pictures and Lego kits sit on the top shelf." width="452" height="603" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/IMG_5084-scaled.jpeg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/IMG_5084-scaled.jpeg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/IMG_5084-scaled.jpeg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/IMG_5084-scaled.jpeg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/IMG_5084-scaled.jpeg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-14376" class="wp-caption-text">26+ years of my journals (a few volumes temporarily are elsewhere), plus a minor NYC/Statue of Liberty collection that includes 3 Lego kits and a framed print of <a href="https://www.jamescookartworkshop.com/products/statue-of-liberty" target="_blank" rel="noopener">James Cook&#8217;s incredible typewriter art</a></figcaption></figure>
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<p>On 12/14/25, I finally embarked on my long-held dream of digitizing my handwritten journals! I started keeping a regular journal on 8/28/99 and now am writing in book #86.</p>
<p>Over the years, Drew and I have looked for the best method to accomplish this task:</p>
<ul>
<li>I ruled out using my flatbed scanner because it takes too long to actually scan, plus you have to sit there with it and turn pages.</li>
<li>I want to keep my journals intact, so that eliminated my super speedy <a href="https://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/1604010-REG/epson_b11b263201_es_500w_ii_document_scanner.html?BI=572&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=12189184232&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD7yMh3yvU-Yu9XA5eGZ47Cl9W37n&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAv5bMBhAIEiwAqP9GuGwiwAfdXGRDyc7S6qh0z3NPPtbi8y_okSLdw9pmRTL5Kk9TGrNMExoCf-0QAvD_BwE" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Epson ES-500W</strong></a> from contention. I often use that scanner to create PDFs of Public Domain texts after Drew disassembles the book from the spine. I outlined my steps to perform OCR and otherwise optimize the scanned PDF in step 3 of <a href="https://karencommins.com/2025/06/planning-your-trip-to-public-domain-world.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Planning Your Trip to Public Domain World</strong></a>.</li>
<li>Reviews of hand scanners made them seem unreliable and persnickety to use.</li>
<li>The <a href="https://www.camscanner.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>CamScanner app</strong></a> could do the scanning, but it doesn&#8217;t recognize handwriting.</li>
<li>We bought a CZUR book scanner when they first came out. It also seemed to take too long to scan and was cumbersome to use, so we sold it. The newer <a href="https://shop.czur.com/products/etscanner?variant=40313243762736" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>CZUR ET24 Pro machine</strong></a> is far superior to the one we sold, but their app doesn&#8217;t recognize handwriting.</li>
</ul>
<p>Since Evernote recognizes handwriting, I&#8217;m excited to use it to digitize my journals.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the process I use to transcribe my handwritten text:</p>
<ol>
<li>Write in my journal as usual.</li>
<li>Take a picture with my phone&#8217;s camera of each page in the entry.</li>
<li>Crop the saved photo(s).</li>
<li>Share it to my computer. I <a href="https://support.apple.com/en-us/119857" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>AirDrop</strong></a> the photo between my iPhone and iMac.</li>
<li>Open desktop Evernote. (It&#8217;s usually already running.) Evernote will transcribe images on the phone, too, but I found it to be very frustrating because it would eat up time and memory.</li>
<li>Create a new note in the journal notebook.</li>
<li>Drag the journal picture(s) into my Evernote note.</li>
<li>Hover the mouse over the top right corner of the picture until the Transcribe button appears, and click it. Refer to the picture below.</li>
<li>Proof Evernote&#8217;s transcription for accuracy.</li>
<li>Create links to other entries, research, etc. that I mentioned in the journal.</li>
</ol>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-14387 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Screenshot-2026-02-06-at-2.42.43-PM.png?resize=300%2C166&#038;ssl=1" alt="Evernote's Transcribe button on a picture of handwritten text." width="300" height="166" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Screenshot-2026-02-06-at-2.42.43-PM.png?resize=300%2C166&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Screenshot-2026-02-06-at-2.42.43-PM.png?w=608&amp;ssl=1 608w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to check the transcription carefully against the source text. The transcription process makes mistakes, including but not limited to these errors:</p>
<ul>
<li>For my handwritten text, Evernote&#8217;s transcription frequently uses wrong numbers, whether I&#8217;ve written a time, date, or a word count.</li>
<li>It leaves out commas where I had them — almost always ignoring the Oxford comma and commas between independent clauses — and adds them where I don&#8217;t want them.</li>
<li>It adds <strong>&#8216;s</strong> for plural words, which, as a grammarian, annoys me considerably!</li>
<li>It removes the NOT part of contractions, completely changing the meaning. For example, <em>wouldn&#8217;t</em> becomes <em>would</em>.</li>
<li>Even with typeset text from newspapers, magazines, and books, sometimes Evernote:
<ul>
<li>paraphrases content</li>
<li>removes, adds, or changes words</li>
<li>makes up whole sentences entirely.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;ve used this process in transcribing my research finds. The transcription errors become worse as an article&#8217;s length grows. I&#8217;ve learned to break up long columns of text when I&#8217;m transcribing newspaper articles.</p>
<p>So far, I&#8217;ve transcribed 148 pages of my current journal and am up to date with it. I started transcribing Journal #1 from 1999 and have completed a number of its entries.</p>
<p>With over 26 years&#8217; worth of words to transcribe, this project will definitely take a while! I keep this quote from Leo Tolstoy in mind:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">A man on a thousand mile walk has to forget his ultimate goal<br />
and say to himself every morning:<br />
&#8220;Today I&#8217;m going to cover 25 miles and then rest up and sleep.&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>PS. If you&#8217;re interested in developing a journaling practice, I&#8217;ve previously written <a href="https://karencommins.com/2019/08/how-i-use-my-journal.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>how I use my journal</strong></a> and <a href="https://karencommins.com/2023/12/things-ive-learned-about-adding-new-entries-to-my-journals.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>things I&#8217;ve learned about adding entries to my journals</strong></a>. I shared some entries with their take-aways in my <a href="https://karencommins.com/category/this-date-in-my-history" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>This Date in My History series of articles</strong></a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>Important note about your data privacy when using Evernote&#8217;s transcription tool</h4>
<p><a href="https://help.evernote.com/hc/en-us/articles/40725583696787-AI-Transcribe-FAQ" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Evernote&#8217;s AI Transcribe FAQ</strong></a> states:</p>
<blockquote><p>For audio, transcription processing occurs within Evernote. For audio summarization and image and video transcription, some data may be shared and processed by a third-party AI vendor.</p>
<p>Such content is only processed to complete your summarization or transcription request. Your data is not used to train AI models. Files are processed securely and deleted by third-party processors within 30 days. If you need more info, you can always review our <a href="https://evernote.com/legal/supplemental-terms" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Supplemental Terms</a>, our <a href="https://evernote.com/legal/terms-of-service" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Terms of Service</a> and our <a href="https://evernote.com/privacy/policy" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Privacy Policy</a>.</p>
<p>Whether you&#8217;re using the audio transcription tool, the video transcription tool, or you’re converting your screenshots to text, you can trust that your content stays private and secure.</p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Writing a Book!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Karen Commins]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 19:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>After 20+ years of narrating books written by others, I&#8217;m thrilled to announce that I am writing my first book! &#160; I&#8217;ll share more as I continue with this project. Behind the Scenes I first wrote a bulleted list of the pieces of info I wanted to include in the video. I wrote the script [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After 20+ years of narrating books written by others, I&#8217;m thrilled to announce that I am writing my first book!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><iframe loading="lazy" title="I&#039;m Writing A Book!" width="500" height="281" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/HtPxfj2CHsw?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<h3></h3>
<p>I&#8217;ll share more as I continue with this project.</p>
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<h3>Behind the Scenes</h3>
<p>I first wrote a bulleted list of the pieces of info I wanted to include in the video. I wrote the script and then recorded and edited it in my studio.</p>
<p>As is the case whenever I make a video, I always create my audio first and then match the visual components to it.</p>
<p>I either created the video clips by recording the screen with Camtasia or downloaded them from <a href="https://www.storyblocks.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Storyblocks.com</strong></a>, where I have a subscription.</p>
<p>Their image search is very frustrating and frequently doesn&#8217;t reveal useful graphics, so I was pleasantly surprised with the video search. I quickly found usable clips that matched very well with my voiceover.</p>
<p>For instance:</p>
<ul>
<li>I said &#8216;But wait! If I&#8217;m going to write a new book, why not add my own research and conclusions to it, especially since I LOVE this kind of research?!&#8217;
<ul>
<li>During the first part, I showed a lightbulb that is outlined in blue neon, and the filament spells IDEA.</li>
<li>In the second part, I play a video of vivid hearts.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Near the end, I say, &#8220;I still have much research and writing to do.&#8221;
<ul>
<li>I love the construction sign clip that flashes up the words &#8220;Work Zone!&#8221; I think it gives a nod to <a href="https://www.KarenCommins.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>my site</strong></a> with my vacation postcard logo and my <a href="https://www.NarratorsRoadmap.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>NarratorsRoadmap.com</strong></a>.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>During a tour of the New York Public Library, we learned that the lion statues out front are named Patience and Fortitude, with Fortitude being the one closest to 42nd Street. I stood by the one named Patience because Drew and I agree that I could use more patience in my life! <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>We bought <a href="https://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/1900679-REG/dji_cp_rn_00000480_01_mic_3_2_person_compact.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>DJI Mic 3 wireless microphones</strong></a> for our live video shoots in New York. In past years, I had tried several lavalier mics and had not been satisfied with the sound quality from them. Drew researched wireless mics and discovered that podcasters use this DJI mic. It interfaces with a phone, making it an easy and portable choice.</p>
<p>At the end of the video, you&#8217;ll hear an F-major harp glissando, which I played on my <a href="https://karencommins.com/videos#harp" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Lyon &amp; Healy Style 11 harp</strong></a>. I set my B and E pedals to sharp, which is the lowest pedal position. Instead of 7 tones in the scale, you only hear 5 of them: F, G, A, C, and D. It feels and sounds like magic to me!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3>Transcript with Video Description</h3>
<p>[March 2021 calendar]<br />
One day during the pandemic lockdown, Drew and I were watching a</p>
<p>[woman lecturing in sculpture gallery of a museum]museum&#8217;s<br />
<span style="font-size: 18px;">lecture over Zoom. The host mentioned a person and event that were on the periphery of the subject.</span></p>
<p>[handwritten Curiosity!]<br />
I perked up with curiosity!</p>
<p>[Google what happened to]<br />
I Googled the person to learn more. I thought the story would make a great book,</p>
<p>[Google is there a book about]<br />
so I looked for one in the public domain that I could narrate, produce, and publish as an audiobook.</p>
<p>[pages turning in a book]<br />
I found a book on my topic.</p>
<p>[woman&#8217;s hands thumbing over tops of a number of books]<br />
Then I found another one. I discovered some other related titles and decided I could edit parts of them together and create a new book.</p>
<p>[blue neon lightbulb created in outline with the filament spelling IDEA]<br />
But wait! If I&#8217;m going to write a new book, why not add my own research and conclusions to it,</p>
<p>[vivid multicolor hearts]<br />
especially since I LOVE this kind of research?!</p>
<p>[Online Course in neon]<br />
I went through a Research Methods for Writers course offered by my library.</p>
<p>[pan up from bottom to top of a stack of newspapers]<br />
I&#8217;ve pored over 1000s of newspaper articles and</p>
<p>[Ancestry.com search for Immigration and Travel]<br />
scoured Ancestry.com for factual evidence like passenger lists on ships.</p>
<p>[live shoot outside the New York Public Library, main 5th Avenue branch]<br />
And now I&#8217;m here in New York at the world famous New York Public Library, ready to do more research on this exciting book project!</p>
<p>[live shoot outside New York Public Library for the Performing Arts on Amsterdam Avenue]<br />
And today my research is taking me to the New Public Library for the Performing Arts, which is near Lincoln Center. I hadn&#8217;t actually been to this part of New York before, so that makes this research trip even more exciting.</p>
<p>[live shoot outside Columbia University, New York]<br />
My research scavenger hunt in New York has now taken me to Columbia University. I&#8217;m so excited to be here, and I can&#8217;t wait to see what I&#8217;m going to find!</p>
<p>[white and orange construction barrier with words Work Zone]<br />
I still have so much research and writing to do, and I look forward to sharing my first book with the world as soon as possible!</p>
<p>[Coming Soon in red neon on black background, with a single letter revealed at a time]<br />
It&#8217;s even more exciting to me because it&#8217;s going to be a full cast audiobook, and I&#8217;m even planning the website.</p>
<p>[my postcard logo]<br />
I&#8217;m Karen Commins, and I hope you&#8217;re living the life of your dreams! (harp glass)</p>
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		<title>Change Starts With Your Thoughts and Words</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Karen Commins]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 16:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I can vividly remember feeling discouraged, angry, and upset about things — especially career objectives — that didn&#8217;t happen when or how I hoped they would, or even at all. I know I wasted incredible time and energy during my IRS years of desperately wanting the life I now have and feeling extremely frustrated about [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can vividly remember feeling discouraged, angry, and upset about things — especially career objectives — that didn&#8217;t happen when or how I hoped they would, or even at all. I know I wasted incredible time and energy during my <a href="https://karencommins.com/2009/03/my_life_as_a_secret_agent.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>IRS years</strong></a> of <a href="https://karencommins.com/2009/04/voiceover_and_the_law_of_parad_1.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>desperately wanting</strong></a> the life I now have and feeling extremely frustrated about not having it.</p>
<p>Rather than making New Year&#8217;s resolutions that were quickly abandoned, I&#8217;ve absorbed and applied a few guiding principles and actions over many years. Changing my thoughts and words have made a dramatic positive difference in my overall happiness and throughout my life.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class=" wp-image-14283 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/colorful-brain.png?resize=482%2C334&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="482" height="334" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/colorful-brain.png?resize=300%2C208&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/colorful-brain.png?w=590&amp;ssl=1 590w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 482px) 100vw, 482px" /><br />
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<h3>Guiding Principles</h3>
<p>1) Joel Osteen always says, &#8220;We can&#8217;t expect victory and talk defeat.&#8221;</p>
<p>2) Wayne Dyer always said, &#8220;We can&#8217;t get enough of what we don&#8217;t want.&#8221;</p>
<p>3) These 2 sentences are openings to the broad topic of mindset. <strong>Manifesting anything we want in our lives starts with our thoughts.</strong> Saying and writing our thoughts sends them out into the universe and gives them creative energy. Therefore, it&#8217;s vital that we are ever vigilant to <a href="https://karencommins.com/2008/10/thinkwritespeak_what_you_want.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>think, speak, and write</strong></a> our words in the direction we want our lives to go!</p>
<p>Also remember: However we fill in the sentence<strong> <a href="https://karencommins.com/2012/06/power_of_i_am.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">&#8220;I AM ___&#8221; becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy</a></strong>!</p>
<p>4) In 2016, I saw a video of Mike Dooley, who writes the <strong><a href="https://www.tut.com/notes-from-the-universe/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">notes from The Universe</a></strong>. He compared the manifestation process to a GPS system. You have to enter your destination (a BIG goal) and then put your car in gear. Don&#8217;t worry if you&#8217;re going the wrong way because you&#8217;ll get guidance! He said:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Guidance will be forthcoming.<br />
You&#8217;re going to quickly hear — perhaps over Barry Manilow &#8211; &#8220;Make a legal U-turn!&#8221;<br />
And you&#8217;re going to hear that until you get on track.</p>
<p>Dooley said to adopt a mantra like &#8220;Every day, I&#8217;m getting closer.&#8221; He said you can get excited about the details, but don&#8217;t make them the end result.</p>
<p>It can be so difficult to stay unattached to a particular outcome and let the Universe fulfill your desire in its own way and in its own time. If you&#8217;re interested, I offered examples and many resources about affirmations, visualizations, and outcomes in <a href="https://karencommins.com/2023/01/narrators-cup-of-joe-woo-woo-blend.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Narrator’s Cup of Joe — Woo Woo Blend</strong></a>.</p>
<p>5) Wayne Dyer always said, &#8220;When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.&#8221;</p>
<p>6) What you put out in the world comes back to you and in a time and way you didn&#8217;t expect. If I kept saying to the Universe with great angst thoughts and words like &#8220;Why not me? What&#8217;s wrong with me?&#8221;, that&#8217;s going to keep showing up for me. It&#8217;s an endless loop. You&#8217;ve got to throw a wedge in there to change that loop because it&#8217;s a perpetual, negative cycle. It&#8217;s a terrible act of self negation, because then you start thinking things like:</p>
<ul>
<li><em>Obviously, people don&#8217;t like my voice.</em></li>
<li><em>People just don&#8217;t like me.</em></li>
<li><em>They don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m a good person.</em></li>
<li><em>They think I&#8217;m not reputable.</em></li>
</ul>
<p>These thoughts have no basis in reality! However, concentrated focus on and repetition of them make them part of your identity! As Wayne Dyer, Mike Dooley, and other spiritual teachers/leaders have said:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #3366ff;"><strong>What you think about expands. Like a cold, the more you talk about something and more emotional weight you give it, the more it becomes part of you.</strong></span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3 id="6Actions">Actions I&#8217;ve Taken to Develop and Maintain a Positive Mindset</h3>
<p>1) During Kristine Oller&#8217;s Jan. 2018 webinar about mindset, I asked her how to <span style="color: #800080;"><strong>break my habitual thinking of comparing myself negatively to others</strong></span>. She said:</p>
<ul>
<li>old ways of thinking were prompting my compulsion to check social media and make comparisons</li>
<li>look at the story you&#8217;re telling yourself and then collect proof that the OPPOSITE of that story is true — find five pieces of evidence to &#8220;force your mind to become creative and flexible.&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p>I realized that I was using those posts to gather evidence in the old &#8220;not good enough&#8221; story! I would see something on Facebook which the inner enemy would seize upon and start re-counting for me the auditions I had not won, awards I had not earned, money I had not made, publishers I had not worked for, etc.</p>
<p>I wrote down 8 ways that my story is different and sooo much better than the one the enemy was using! Take THAT, inner enemy!</p>
<p>2)<span style="color: #800080;"><strong> Celebrate my own accomplishments, not just on social media but in a real way</strong></span>.</p>
<p>3) When my brain wants to seize on something and get in a downward spiral over it, I <span style="color: #800080;"><strong>repeat out loud this quote from Paulo Coelho: &#8220;Stop being who you were and change into who you are.&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p>4) <span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Tell myself in the mirror each day all the positive &#8220;I AM&#8221; statements that I can dream up.</strong></span> Write them down and then think about them and repeat them out loud through the day. Louise Hay&#8217;s book <strong><a href="https://amzn.to/2HoMQdH" target="_blank" rel="noopener">MIRROR WORK</a></strong> is an excellent guide for this type of mental reprogramming.</p>
<p>5) <span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Write a compassionate letter to myself and re-read it out loud as needed.</strong></span> I am a much harsher critic of myself than I ever would be to anyone else! My letter is full of encouragement and praise that I wrote as if I were writing it to another person. It helps to re-read it when that &#8220;little girl inside&#8221; thinks things are unfair. This idea is an exercise in the book <strong><a href="https://amzn.to/2H0AVmW" target="_blank" rel="noopener">SELF-COMPASSION: THE PROVEN POWER OF BEING KIND TO YOURSELF</a></strong> by Kristin Neff.</p>
<p>6)<span style="color: #800080;"><strong> Change the second thought to one that makes me feel better.</strong></span></p>
<p>It&#8217;s very low and very disempowering when I&#8217;ve felt hurt, disappointed, frustrated, and angry because I feel like I&#8217;m being rejected by the world and/or people don&#8217;t like what I have to offer. We cannot help that first thought. It comes barreling in, unbidden, and we&#8217;re not in control of that.</p>
<p>We <strong>are</strong> in control of the very next thought! We are in control of our choice of what are we going to do with that thought we just had. I choose to think in the next thought of things I wrote in my compassionate letter. It&#8217;s a perfect antidote because what we see on the outside is a physical manifestation of what&#8217;s going on inside.</p>
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<p>The <a href="https://amzn.to/3MZKUvF" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>It Works!</strong></a> booklet by R. H. Jarrett is a good primer for changing your thinking to create the life of your dreams. I especially recommend you read <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/customer-reviews/R27IELWGMYAOYK/ref=cm_cr_dp_d_rvw_ttl?ie=UTF8" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Brad Jensen&#8217;s review</strong></a> even if you don&#8217;t get the booklet.</p>
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<p>Wishing you radiant health, unbounded prosperity, and every happiness in 2026 and beyond!</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Updated 1/3/26 &#160; I&#8217;ve been a proud member of the Professional Audiobook Narrators Association (PANA) since its inception. The organization offered its first convention PANAcon last month. &#160; When I was asked earlier this year to speak at the first PANAcon on a panel about self-producing your work, I couldn&#8217;t say &#8220;yes!&#8221; fast enough! If [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Updated 1/3/26</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been a proud member of the <a href="https://pronarrators.org" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Professional Audiobook Narrators Association</strong></a> (PANA) since its inception. The organization offered its first convention PANAcon last month.</p>
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<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-14164 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/PANAcon-logo.jpg?resize=300%2C246&#038;ssl=1" alt="PANAcon Virtual Conference is text against the multi-colored PANA logo, which looks like abstract people behind the image of a gold microphone." width="300" height="246" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/PANAcon-logo.jpg?resize=300%2C246&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/PANAcon-logo.jpg?w=540&amp;ssl=1 540w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></p>
<p>When I was asked earlier this year to speak at the first PANAcon on a panel about self-producing your work, I couldn&#8217;t say &#8220;yes!&#8221; fast enough!</p>
<p>If you attended, you should have received an email with links to the videos from all of the sessions. Download all the videos now because they won&#8217;t be available after 1 September.</p>
<p>This article and its resources should benefit attendees and non-attendees alike.</p>
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<h4><span style="color: #0000ff;">The Panel</span></h4>
<p>I was delighted to join and learn from my co-panelists and multi-talented narrators <a href="https://www.shiromispeaks.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Shiromi Arserio</strong></a>, <a href="http://www.tanyaeby.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Tanya Eby</strong></a>, and <a href="https://www.cassandramedcalf.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Cassandra Medcalf</strong></a> as they shared their knowledge and experience in writing, publishing, and marketing their books. I talked about creating and publishing audiobooks from Public Domain texts. Thanks also to narrator <strong><a href="https://www.kellywilkinson.net" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Kelly Wilkinson</a></strong> for facilitating our session, the audience members who spent time with us and asked wonderful questions, and to all the volunteers who planned, coordinated, and made PANAcon such a fantastic success.</p>
<p>As panel moderator, Shiromi asked very thought-provoking questions, a few of which I&#8217;d like to share here.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>What was the most unexpected challenge or most pleasant surprise you encountered when you decided to release your own audiobooks?</strong></span></p>
<p>I published my first title, a Public Domain book, in 2014. I didn&#8217;t know then how that action would completely open up and enrich my life!</p>
<p>Public Domain books have become my passion and <a href="https://karencommins.com/2022/05/public-domain-narration-headquarters.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>a cornerstone of my work</strong></a>. I&#8217;ve taught other narrators about finding PD books they love and distributing the finished audiobook.</p>
<p>My ever-deepening interest in copyright led me to apply for and then enroll in the <a href="https://cyber.harvard.edu/teaching/copyrightx" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>CopyrightX program at Harvard University</strong></a>.</p>
<p>After publishing that first book, I combined 2 Public Domain books into a new book. It remains one of my favorite projects: <a href="https://amzn.to/4lOuGSK" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Bly vs Bisland: Beating Phileas Fogg in a Race Around the World</strong></a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m currently working on perhaps the most electrifying professional undertaking of my life, which started as an idea to record a single Public Domain book. I discovered more books on the subject and thought I&#8217;d create a mash-up of multiple PD books similar to Bly vs Bisland.</p>
<p>This new topic has evolved into a fascinating multi-year historical research adventure for a<strong> new book I&#8217;m creating that I&#8217;ll produce as a full cast audiobook</strong>! It will be a celebration of Public Domain texts and fabulous audiobook narrators!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always admired biographers and historians who weave together a wide range of disparate facts and sources into a compelling story. It&#8217;s thrilling to be on that path!</p>
<p>I love and am absorbed in my daily research! It&#8217;s terribly exciting to discover hidden gems that the (many, many!) others who dived in this ocean of material completely missed. I&#8217;m planning a research trip in the coming months.</p>
<p>The biggest joy of the whole thing is going from idea to implementation — to take something that I had as an idea and work at it to make it appear in tangible form. That&#8217;s what makes us artists and what makes self-producing worthwhile.</p>
<p>And I have to say, not spending my time constantly writing to people and saying, &#8220;please hire me, please hire me&#8221; is huge for me! I&#8217;m generating my own work and totally in my own lane here. You can&#8217;t put a price tag on that.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>I&#8217;ve done a handful of public domain titles, and it&#8217;s usually just what seems like a fun book that I wish people would cast me for. But you&#8217;re much more strategic about how you pick titles. Did you want to talk about that?</strong></span></p>
<p>First of all, know that an incredible trove of books are in the Public Domain that you would not expect to be there. Most people seem to think Public Domain books are 100 years old and overflowing with very florid Victorian language.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s not true! In fact, the juiciest Public Domain titles were published in mid-century 1900s. At that time, the copyright had to be renewed, and a lot of people didn&#8217;t do that. In fact, <strong>between 1931 and 1963, about 74% of the books published in the US are Public Domain</strong>! The copyright has expired, so anybody can do anything they want to with them.</p>
<p>Whenever I see or hear about a book that piques my interest, the first thing I do is check out its copyright status. Is it in the Public Domain, or did the author or publisher renew the copyright?</p>
<p>A lot of people ask me for help finding a book, and the first things I ask them are:</p>
<ul>
<li>What do you like to read?</li>
<li>What kind of books do you like?</li>
<li>Which genres do you work in, and which do you want to work in?</li>
</ul>
<p>You&#8217;re going to spend time with this book, and you may or may not make any money on it. You might as well do something that you really like that looks good for your portfolio.</p>
<p>Remember I said the key publication dates range between 1931 to 1963. The earliest age of a Public Domain book in that range is 95 years old, meaning it&#8217;s stood the test of time. If a book has a lot of ratings and reviews and continues to be of interest, then it&#8217;s probably going to make money.</p>
<p>Everything published in the US in 1930 and earlier is Public Domain. Books published in the US in 1931 will all become Public Domain on January 1st. It&#8217;s not too soon to find one, record it, and have it ready to publish in the new year!</p>
<p>Goodreads maintains lists of books that are popular for a given year. You can review <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/popular_by_date/1931" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>their list of books from 1931</strong></a> to find one that speaks to you as an artist. The books that appear high on the list usually include big sellers in literary history that we always hear about. They attract a lot of attention with many people, including big audio publishers, who are eager to record them. Further down that list, though, you&#8217;ll find books that are still interesting, that people are still reading and writing reviews about on Goodreads. I think that list is a really good place to start.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>As someone who produces their own audiobooks, you have to handle the distribution, the marketing, the cover art, the writing. How are you able to manage your time?</strong></span></p>
<p>I take an incremental approach, and I create a to do list every day in Evernote of three things:</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li>Most important task of the day — If this was the only thing you did today, you’d be satisfied. (1 task)</li>
<li>Secondary tasks of importance — Completion of these tasks will make the day even better. (2 tasks, though I often add more)</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p><a href="https://karencommins.com/2020/01/plan-your-work-and-work-your-plan.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>This article</strong></a> details my use of Evernote and links to the templates of my daily and monthly action plans.</p>
<p>Almost every day, I list 2, 30-minute activities: research on my book, and content creation. For instance, it might take me several days to write an article like this one if I&#8217;m just doing a little bit at a stretch.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying I always accomplish everything — or even anything — on my daily list!</p>
<p>I take you behind the scenes of my process and offer 9 ways I&#8217;ve increased my output in my article <a href="https://karencommins.com/2021/05/how-i-get-stuff-done.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>How I Get Stuff Done</strong></a>.</p>
<p>In terms of marketing my own books, I&#8217;m a firm believer in having a <strong>promotions calendar</strong>. Look for things in and associated with the book that give you reasons to talk about it long after its release date.</p>
<p>I mentioned <a href="https://amzn.to/4lOuGSK" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Bly vs Bisland</strong></a> earlier. Two female reporters, Nellie Bly and Elizabeth Bisland, each went on a solo trip around the world that started in November 1889. I can promote that audiobook:</p>
<ul>
<li>every October 2nd because that&#8217;s the date Jules Verne&#8217;s imaginary character Phileas Fogg made a wager that he could go around the world in 80 days</li>
<li>every November 14th when the race starts</li>
<li>every December 21st as that&#8217;s the date Phileas Fogg won his bet</li>
<li>every January 25th on the anniversary of the end of the reporters&#8217; race</li>
<li>Nellie Bly&#8217;s and Elizabeth Bisland&#8217;s birthdays and dates of death</li>
<li>if their name comes up in the news or I create some other reason. For instance, I&#8217;ve talked about it being a good book to listen to on a winter trip!</li>
</ul>
<p>I might only promote that book a couple times a year, but I love having options!</p>
<p>At least enter basic dates on your promotion calendar and add a reminder a week before the date. Once you develop assets of marketing pieces, you can just <a href="https://x.com/search?q=nellie%20bly%20(from%3AKarenCommins)&amp;src=typed_query&amp;f=live" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>pop them back out on social media again</strong></a>. Nobody knows or cares that this is the same thing that you used the last three years on the same day! Just keep utilizing and repurposing the things you have. You don&#8217;t always have to create something new.</p>
<p>My <a href="https://karencommins.com/2016/11/karen-comminss-audiobook-marketing-cheat-sheet.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Audiobook Marketing Cheat Sheet</strong></a> gives you a bounty of tips and tactics you could employ to market your book.</p>
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<h4><span style="color: #0000ff;">Audience Q&amp;A</span></h4>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>How do you determine if a mid 1900’s book is in the PD?</strong></span></p>
<p>You have to research the copyright date. See Step 1 of my article <a href="https://karencommins.com/2025/06/planning-your-trip-to-public-domain-world.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Planning Your Trip to Public Domain World.</strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Can you take a public domain book and make it more of a modern story?</strong></span></p>
<p>Absolutely! If you want a great example, look no further than <span style="color: #339966;"><strong>WICKED</strong></span>! Gregory Maguire imagined new stories for the beloved Wizard of Oz characters because they were in the Public Domain. He wrote <a href="https://amzn.to/3Hb19n8" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>a book</strong></a>, which became a bestseller. He then licensed the rights — making even more money for himself! — for a musical and movies, plus all the merchandise!</p>
<p>However, you don&#8217;t have to invent a new story. Remember, you can change anything you want in a PD book. Narrator Alison Larkin received great acclaim about her adaptation of the Charles Dickens classic book <a href="https://alisonlarkinpresents.com/product/great-expectations/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Great Expectations</strong></a>. She changed Pip&#8217;s gender to female, which breathed new life and meaning into an old story.</p>
<p>An email recently arrived in my inbox promoting the March 2026 release of <a href="https://amzn.to/4mbzIZI" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Lady Tremaine: A Novel</strong></a> by Rachel Hochhauser, in which the author tells the Cinderella story through the point of view of the stepmother.</p>
<p>Your possibilities are limited only by your imagination and creativity!</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Would you ever write and record an introduction to a public domain book, for example as a way to address problematic language that you want/need to keep in? Or would you just put the disclaimer in the written description?</strong></span></p>
<p>Public Domain means you, as the producer, can create the audiobook any way you want. If you want to change the language, change it. If you want to delete sentences, paragraphs, or pages, delete them.</p>
<p>I look at each book on a case-by-case book and decide whether I&#8217;d add a disclaimer to the book&#8217;s description. For something like Huckleberry Finn, I&#8217;m not going to change the language. I would add a disclaimer in my book&#8217;s printed description and say this language reflected the time that it was written, viewpoints have obviously changed for the better since then, and be aware you&#8217;re going to hear objectionable language.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t included a disclaimer in the recording, but there&#8217;s no reason you couldn&#8217;t do so.</p>
<p>Disclaimer examples are in Step 6 of my article <a href="https://karencommins.com/2025/06/planning-your-trip-to-public-domain-world.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Planning Your Trip to Public Domain World.</strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Do you make an e-book of a public domain book you’re making an audiobook of?</strong></span></p>
<p>I only need an ebook if I want to claim the title on ACX. If I&#8217;m going through another distributor, I don&#8217;t need an e-book. More information is in Step 2 of my article <a href="https://karencommins.com/2025/06/planning-your-trip-to-public-domain-world.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Planning Your Trip to Public Domain World.</strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>If you work with a person who has already released the e-book on Amazon, how do you handle the royalty share percentage on Audible?</strong></span></p>
<p>Ebook and audiobook royalties are 2 different things. If the rights holders of the <a href="https://karencommins.com/2022/05/public-domain-narration-headquarters.html#AmazonEdition" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Amazon edition</strong></a> and audiobook are different, they don&#8217;t share in each others&#8217; royalties.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Once you produce a PD book, how then do you distribute it?</strong></span></p>
<p>You have to make this decision for each book. I have a <a href="https://www.narratorsroadmap.com/distributors-kb-post/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>distributor comparison chart for members of NarratorsRoadmap.com</strong></a>, where I look at 22 criteria for 6 distributors. Not only are the royalty amounts different, but you&#8217;ll want to consider how often a distributor pays you, whether they offer promotional support like download codes, and many other factors. I also provide my full recommendations there.</p>
<p>You may want to join Rebecca Hefner&#8217;s Facebook group <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/marketingaudiobookswide" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Marketing Audiobooks Wide</strong></a> as it&#8217;s a reliable source of information.</p>
<p>On all my audiobooks, I want to claim the book on ACX with exclusive distribution on Audible for at least the first 90 days. With an exclusive deal, I&#8217;ll receive Audible download codes, which everybody understands and are a great way to promote the book.</p>
<p>Exclusive distribution also garners the highest royalty rate Audible is going to pay anybody. Audible pays me 40% for exclusive distribution, but if I&#8217;m not exclusive, they only pay me a 25% royalty rate, leaving a gap of 15%. I think contemporary romance and other modern fiction like cozy mysteries are going to do better with wide distribution. I&#8217;ve been publishing biographies and history. So far, the wide distribution hasn&#8217;t made up that 15% difference. I therefore still have some books that remain exclusive with Audible because they&#8217;re paying me the most money.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>On ACX, do you create a Rights Holder&#8217;s Profile as well as a Narrator Profile? And do you have to make a Direct Offer to yourself?</strong></span><br />
You do need separate narrator and RH accounts with different email addresses. They can use the same tax ID (SSN or EIN, which I recommend, as discussed near the end of <a href="https://www.narratorsroadmap.com/watch-out-for-scams/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>this article</strong></a>.) You won’t make an offer to yourself. Instead, sign in with your RH/publisher account, select <strong>Already Have the Audio</strong> (DIY project<strong>)</strong>, and upload all of the files, including <a href="https://karencommins.com/2022/05/public-domain-narration-headquarters.html#CoverArt" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>cover art</strong></a>.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.narratorsroadmap.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>NarratorsRoadmap.com</strong></a> members can watch my 1:48:21 webinar <span style="color: #33cccc;"><strong><em>Public Domain Audiobooks and Self-Publishing</em></strong></span>, in which I show the entire process for claiming a book as an ACX rights holder.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Does your Audible listing state that it is a public domain book?</strong></span><br />
Each distributor asks for basic information including the copyright date and owner. I&#8217;ll enter the original publication year and &#8220;PD&#8221; or &#8220;Public Domain&#8221; for the original rights holder.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Would you create an LLC for your publishing empire?</strong></span><br />
You don&#8217;t have to establish an LLC. I run a sole proprietorship and file a joint 1040 tax return with my husband that includes a Schedule C for business. I have 3 &#8220;Doing Business As&#8221; (DBA) names: A VOICE Above The Crowd, Jewel Audiobooks and NarratorsRoadmap.com. You really need to talk to your accountant about your particular situation and what makes sense for you.</p>
<p>Regardless of your business type, though, you will want to ensure your business earnings and expenses are separate from your personal ones. Maintain different bank accounts and credit cards for personal and business uses.</p>
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<p>You&#8217;ll find more info and Q&amp;As on my <a href="https://bit.ly/ComminsPDHQ" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Public Domain Narration Headquarters</strong></a> page. I hope you feel inspired and equipped to tackle a Public Domain project and self-produce your own work!</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I regretted not asking for a Barry Manilow tour poster 30 years ago. I explain why I no longer have that regret and offer 5 ways to live without regrets.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://karencommins.com/2024/06/living-with-no-regrets.html">Living with No Regrets</a> appeared first on <a href="https://karencommins.com">Karen Commins</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few days ago, I happened to see <a href="https://x.com/CeliaBedelia/status/1797237560755757288" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>this tweet</strong></a> from @CeliaBedelia:</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-13733" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Tweet-about-regrets-253x300.png?resize=326%2C387&#038;ssl=1" alt="picture of a tweet transcribed in the article with a puffin sweater" width="326" height="387" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Tweet-about-regrets.png?resize=253%2C300&amp;ssl=1 253w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Tweet-about-regrets.png?resize=865%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 865w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Tweet-about-regrets.png?resize=768%2C910&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Tweet-about-regrets.png?w=1194&amp;ssl=1 1194w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 326px) 100vw, 326px" /></p>
<blockquote><p>My daughter asked, “Do you ever have any regrets, Mom?” And while I know she was asking this question on a philosophical level, my mind immediately went to this puffin sweater I saw in Iceland. It’s been 3 years since I saw it in a shop there, &amp; I still regret not buying it.</p></blockquote>
<p>Her comment struck a chord with the Twitterverse. Her post received hundreds of replies about similar missed shopping opportunities and garnered thousands of likes.</p>
<p>I have my own story about the same sort of regret, along with some ideas about living with no regrets.</p>
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<p>On Saturday 5 March 1994, we were in Munich, Germany. I wrote in my journal:</p>
<blockquote><p>I actually saw a poster advertising Barry&#8217;s European tour and his date in Munich. I looked around to see if I could find one pasted on a wall that I could steal! <span style="color: #3366ff;">(Don&#8217;t judge me!)</span> The one I saw was in a store window. Since the tour is postponed indefinitely, I may try to go back to the store (if I can remember where it is!) and try to buy that poster.</p></blockquote>
<p>Alas, it was not meant to be. After touring Neuschwanstein Castle the next day, I wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>Once we got back to Munich, we walked up the Marienplatz trying to find the Barry tour poster. Either my memory is failing, or I just saw an overwhelming amount of stuff yesterday. In any case, we couldn&#8217;t find it again (sob).</p></blockquote>
<p>I always regretted that I didn&#8217;t go in that music store and try to buy that poster when I was standing there! I looked for the poster for years to no avail.</p>
<p>On 15 February, I decided I&#8217;d finally put this remorse out of my life. Somebody in Germany had an eBay listing for the Hamburg poster in that long-canceled 1994 tour. Since I never found the one for Munich, I thought Hamburg would be close enough. I bought that poster!</p>
<p>In the glorious perfection of the Universe, 3 days shy of the 30th anniversary of my original sighting in Munich, the poster arrived at my house! It was in almost mint condition, as if it had been waiting for me for 3 decades.</p>
<p>I had it framed, and I can say without any bias that it looks spectacular! I hung it in my craft room with my other framed Manilow art. To be clear, when I say &#8220;I hung it&#8221;, I mean &#8220;Drew did the work while I watched!&#8221; We had to re-arrange that whole wall and move one of my other pieces to accommodate this new addition.</p>
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<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-13731" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-244x300.jpg?resize=340%2C418&#038;ssl=1" alt="Barry Manilow tour poster for The Greatest Hits Tour '94 with his head back and arms outstretched as he stands on stage. The concert would have been held on 30 March 1994." width="340" height="418" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-scaled.jpg?resize=244%2C300&amp;ssl=1 244w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-scaled.jpg?resize=834%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 834w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C943&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-scaled.jpg?resize=1251%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1251w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-scaled.jpg?resize=1668%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1668w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-in-Hamburg-poster-scaled.jpg?w=2000&amp;ssl=1 2000w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 340px) 100vw, 340px" /></p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-13734" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-wall-in-green-room-300x225.jpg?resize=400%2C300&#038;ssl=1" alt="My craft room has green walls. A life-size cardboard figure of Barry Manilow stands on the left. Framed posters are on the wall, left to right: Copacabana (Barry's movie in which he starred), his concert at the Las Vegas Mirage, his single The One That Got Away, his Wembley concert with my ticket stubs, his Singing With The Big Bands album, and the 1994 Hamburg tour poster." width="400" height="300" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-wall-in-green-room-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-wall-in-green-room-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-wall-in-green-room-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-wall-in-green-room-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/karencommins.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Barry-wall-in-green-room-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 2048w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px" /></p>
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<h4>5 Ways to Live With No Regrets</h4>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure it&#8217;s actually possible for me to be completely free of regrets. However, I&#8217;ve found these rules help me minimize and eliminate them:</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">1. When shopping, the time to buy it is when you see it.</span></strong></p>
<p>One of the respondents to Celia&#8217;s tweet included a picture of a store interior in which the owner displayed a sign that read &#8220;Nothing haunts us like the things we didn&#8217;t buy.&#8221; Given the overwhelming responses to her tweet, I think it&#8217;s true!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800080;">2. The corollary to the first rule is &#8220;If I have it, I&#8217;ll find a place for it.&#8221;</span></strong></p>
<p>Almost always, the thing in question would be an impulsive purchase. I used to talk myself out of buying things because I didn&#8217;t know where I&#8217;ll put it. Repeating this tenet out loud helps me know whether the item truly has lasting appeal and needs to be in my life or would be quickly forgotten if I walked away from it.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>3. To quote my favorite line from <em>Gone With the Wind</em>: &#8220;Askin&#8217; ain&#8217;t gettin'&#8221;, to which I always add: &#8220;If you don&#8217;t ask, you don&#8217;t get!&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p>You&#8217;ll never know what will happen unless you ask for what you want. You might be turned down. You might be ignored. But what if you get the answer that changes everything?!</p>
<p>This principle is very important in the Law of Attraction. You have to be very clear about <a href="https://www.karencommins.com/2008/10/thinkwritespeak_what_you_want.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>what you WANT</strong></a> and ask the Universe for it <strong>or something better. </strong></p>
<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s hard to have the courage to ask, which leads to the next guideline.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>4. Feel the fear, and do it anyway.</strong></span></p>
<p>Susan Jeffers wrote an <a href="https://amzn.to/3XbFb8V" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>excellent book with that title</strong></a> that I found to be helpful when I read it years ago.</p>
<p>Resistance shows up in many ways, with the leading method being some type of fear. I don&#8217;t necessarily mean some big fear like the loss of a home or relationship. I&#8217;m talking about little — and possibly also irrational — fears, like worrying what someone will think about me or being afraid to audition for an audiobook because I might feel overwhelmed with the workload if I were cast for it.</p>
<p>I have to push all those types of thoughts aside and just DO whatever is in front of me.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>5. Be kind and compassionate to myself and remind myself that I&#8217;m doing the best I can each day.</strong></span></p>
<p>This rule is the most important and the most difficult to implement. I&#8217;m not always successful at it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all too easy to fall in the trap of &#8220;could have/should have&#8221;, which can lead to a downward spiral of negative thinking. Continuing to blame or criticize myself for my (in)action in some past situation doesn&#8217;t change the situation or help me feel better about the outcome. It only keeps me stuck and not living my best life in the present moment.</p>
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<p>Do you have a shopping sorrow or a way to combat regrets? I hope you&#8217;ll share it in the comments!</p>
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